people "anywhere" are people !
they wake up ... go to work. they eat ...they drink .. they go home to sleep and wake up and go to work !
they love ... actually they like to love ... boys love girls and hang out with them ! all people are running after their lust!
the parents raise their children ... the children try to discover the new life ... and the teenagers are the teenagers :))!
but they all do all of these things by different ways... depends on many conditions ... the place .. the culture ... and the religion ....
and here in America ... the Americans have their own "special" way to do all of these stuff!
I will not cover all things that the Americans do in their life but all things have something called "Mastering" .... they do everything perfectly ! sure not all the Americans ... but most of them .. the system says that ... everything is "perfect"
they work hard to earn their money ... they have to do their work very work "perfect" ... with their smile !
they can separate their personal feelings and emotions when they start the work ... you will see their smile " for every" on their face !
in my college ... the people always smile .. they are absolutely helpful! with their smile ... one time I asked myself these people don't have any problems in their personal life?!
one day I asked this question to my American culture's teacher " why don't I see sad people in America ... why are people usually smiling?! " sure she laugh!
the fact is they do everything perfectly and they have the ability to separate ! in the house ... there is a family ... in the work .. there is work ... and on the bed there is sex ... everything .. perfectly .
even fun ... I've never seen people trying to enjoy every moment when the time of fun comes ! in weekend you find all people walk to one direction ... to have fun ... everyone is going to have fun but his/her way ... under 21 years usually going to party anywhere ... and more than 21 going to clubs ... bars ...
and the clubs here are just mix of everything ! I don't thing these are the clubs that I know or that I've heard about! ... it is mix of dance .... drink ... sex ... and all things that lead to fun ... absolutely fun! a perfect fun!
Here the weekend = drink + sex + other things!
anywhere you will find people are looking for the fun , the happiness and entertainment! but the Americans are looking for that by their weird way ... by no-limitation !
The wonderful thing that you can wonder when you see the person who fell drunk yesterday! today is doing his/her work very well! with a smile !
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However ... there is a system that people grew up to respect it!
Red stop ... Green Go !
you will find that anywhere ... and there is no exception !
son of the president like son of the worker ... Red stop ... Green GO!
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here ... you can't determine " exactly" who is rich and who is poor ... you see everybody wears the same clothes ... the poor buy them from secondhand stores and the rich buy them brand new ... but when everybody wears the clothes ... they are just clothes ... used clothes! after the first time everything is used!
the same thing with the cars .... all people drive cars .. good car ...!
you can find rich and poor eat from the same restaurant ...drink from the same bar ... dance side by side. you find the same service for all people!
I know there is variety .. but you can't feel it easily like in many countries!
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to talk about the people here ... I need many posts .. so to be continue with some situations that I've met with the people here....!
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